I too would like to know what is under Snape's cape.
One thing is certain: one cannot serve two masters. And when one's life is given over to one community that demands utter allegiance, it cannot be given to another. The LDS church is one such community. The homosexual community seems to be another. And when I read the statements of those who claim to be both LDS and homosexual, trying to persuade the former community to cease making their membership contingent upon abandoning the latter, I wonder if they realize that the price of such "tolerance" would be, in the long run, the destruction of the Church.
The argument by the hypocrites of homosexuality that homosexual tendencies are genetically ingrained in some individuals is almost laughably irrelevant. We are all genetically predisposed toward some sin or another; we are all expected to control those genetic predispositions when it is possible. It is for God to judge which individuals are tempted beyond their ability to bear or beyond their ability to resist. But it is the responsibility of the Church and the Saints never to lose sight of the goal of perfect obedience to laws designed for our happiness.
The average fifteen-year-old teenage boy is genetically predisposed to copulate with anything that moves. We are compassionate and forgiving of those who cannot resist this temptation, but we do not regard as adult anyone who has not overcome it; and we can only help others overcome those "genetic predispositions" by teaching them that we expect them to meet a higher standard of behavior than the one their own body teaches them. Are we somehow cruel and overdomineering when we teach young men and young women that their lives will be better and happier if they have no memory of sexual intercourse with others to deal with when they finally are married? On the contrary, we would be heartless and cruel if we did not.You can read the rest yourself here, if you can stomach it: www.nauvoo.com/library/card-hypocrites.h
And for a very interesting interview in which Card explodes over the temerity of gay people seeking equal rights, go here: archive.salon.com/books/feature/2000/02/0
We’re children equally of the earth and the sky
In our tenure on this planet, we’ve accumulated
Dangerous evolutionary baggage
We’ve also acquired compassion for others,
Love for our children,
And a great soaring passionate intelligence
The clear tools for our continued survival..."
Some things are just so profound and resonate with me. This is one of them--that humans have the ability to survive the future and that we MUST make that happen. It is deeply optimistic and yet acknowledges our duty as humans, "our obligation to survive and flourish is owned, not just to ourselves, but to that cosmos, ancient and vast, from which we sprang." This is why I love Sagan and it's why I love Dawkins and why I still love Star Trek--this admission of the daunting task we have ahead of us and the wild hope that humanity will rise to the challenge. Some days I believe that we can. This is one of those days.

www.cnn.com/2010/CRIME/01/28/kansas.abor
I hope they lock this guy up for life.
Sources tell me that Sarah Palin has got all the good old boys at Fox News in a tizzy, particularly the ever-frightened Glenn Beck.
"Sarah is the new flavor of the month at Fox. All the bosses love her. She's an incredibly strong woman who finds a way of getting what she wants," an insider tells me. "And Glenn has convinced himself that it's his 5 p.m. slot that Sarah has her eye on." Ooooh, catty paranoia!
And according to my source, there's only room for one diva at 5 o'clock. "Glenn thinks of himself as the King and isn't going to be replaced by a Queen without a fight."
Aw, gossipy goodness. LOL!
"I would like you to pray that Jesus heals Pat Robertson from his hateful, vindictive spirit. What he said about Haiti shows a spiteful, unChristian soul. I sincerely hope he gets his heart right with Jesus soon."
If you want to submit a prayer request of your own, you can do it here: www.cbn.com/spirituallife/PrayerAndCouns
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If you can afford it, DO IT.
I was going through some things two nights ago and found a series of letters I wrote to my future husband, whom I monikered 'Julian'. It's so strange to read them again and see how silly and naive I was. Not just about men but about what I wanted. About what a relationship was all about. When I was young, I just wanted someone to come and save me from my dad. By 21 I realized that no one was going to do that and so I had to save myself. But the desire persisted, long after the need faded. It took a long long time for me to recognize that I didn't *want* a man to save me. That I was complete unto myself. That I really didn't want that romance-novel-sweep-me-off-my-feet love. That I wanted to do the sweeping. Or at least be in a relationship where we took turns doing it.
I fantasize a lot about going back in time to those dark teen years, when I was kept a virtual prisoner in my dad's house and indoctrinated with guilt and pain. I dream of telling myself that it will get better, that I will someday be free and happy. I don't know that I would have believed it then (especially if I had told myself I would do it without God). Sometimes, I hardly do now.
How lucky I am!
I have really really tried to avoid all this Tiger Woods crap. He's a celebrity, he cheated. End of story. But this is just beyond the pale. Fox News' Brit Hume urged Tiger to convert to Christianity in order to find 'redemption':
"The extent to which he can recover seems to me depends on his faith. He is said to be a Buddhist. I don't think that faith offers the kind of forgiveness and redemption that is offered by the Christian faith. So, my message to Tiger is, 'Tiger, turn to the Christian faith and you can make a total recovery and be a great example to the world.'
Source: http://www.washingtonmonthly.com/a
WTF Brit Hume?!?!
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A Somali man believed to have ties to terrorist groups was shot as he allegedly tried to enter the home of Danish political cartoonist Kurt Westergaard -- known for his controversial depictions of the Muslim prophet Mohammed -- on Friday, police said.
The 27-year-old man, who was not identified, wielded an ax and a knife and cracked a window at Westergaard's home in Aarhus, said police spokesman Morten Jensen. A home alarm alerted police to the scene at 10 p.m., and they were attacked by the man, he said. http://www.cnn.com/2010/WORLD/europe....i
*Shakes head* If this guy was trying to prove Westergaard wrong in his cartoonish assertion that Islam is a violent religion, I'd say he failed.

Cross posted to my journal.
Edit: Looks like the police, not Westergaard, shot the attacker after he tried to attack them. My bad!
However, it appears that Miller has disappeared with the child, to 'save' her from the evil gay influence. You know, the one that conceived her... *shakes head* It's sad when a family is torn apart by divorce but it's even worse when it's torn apart by bigotry. What does Miller think, that Jenkins is going to make her kid gay or something? She should know first hand that that's not how it works. It just goes to show you how religious brainwashing can override even previous life experiences...so so sad for this little girl.
Source: news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20091229/ap_on_re_us/u
Gill is here but sick with a cough, so I stayed home from work yesterday and we watched old movies and I made her chicken soup. I have a lot of fond memories of my mom pampering me when I was sick :)
One of my FB friends posted this completely bullshit thing about Obama being sued in the Supreme Court for not being a legal US citizen. When I pointed out that Snopes had debunked it as a lie, he said, "Well, there's a lot of evidence on either side." And I'm like--no, no there's not. There's a rumor and then there is the truth and the truth is on my side, actually. And then one of his other friends is like, "Well, usually rumors start because of some grain of truth." *facepalm*
I am really hoping to wake up and find out that this decade has just been a horrible dream.
NEW YORK (The Borowitz Report) - Just days after tying the knot after years of abstinence, Kevin Jonas of the pop sensation the Jonas Brothers stunned his teenaged fans by announcing that "to be honest about it, sex was not worth the wait."
"After we did it, I was kind of like, that's it?" Mr. Jonas told reporters at a New York press conference.
As to whether Mr. Jonas' bride agreed with his "that's it?" assessment, Mr. Jonas remarked, "That's what she said."ROFL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
What this story is really about is the ridiculous expectations our society has for the monogamous. And no, I'm not saying that Tiger is in the right. He lied to his wife. He is a lying sack of shit.
But I am saying that monogamy isn't natural for human beings and it's time we as a society admitted that and created some common sense ways to deal with it. Like actually talking to our spouses openly about our desires and maybe not being so goddamn insecure that we feel threatened by our mate wanting some outside pussy from time to time (and, of course, our own desire for outside dick). I see no reason that a marriage can't be open and loving, with the understanding that sexual fidelity is not necessary as long as emotional fidelity is. Some honesty could have actually saved Tiger's marriage. Instead, all parties feel betrayed and cheated.
So maybe this should be a lesson to us all. We ought to talk to our partners-openly and honestly-about our sexual desires. And maybe, just maybe, we will be surprised to learn that we aren't the only one that fantasizes about that threesome/gang bang/sex on the side.
